He is always nice to everyone. He is so considerate towards others feelings. He makes sure that (or at least tries his best to make sure that) whatever he does or says does not harm/affect anybody. He thinks a lot before doing anything so that his action does not hurt anyone! But, he feels so bad, when people whom he helps exploit him and think only about their job being done and not about how it affects him. Even in such a situation, he does not yell at them - he just feels bad to himself - coz he does not want to hurt them!

Why are the others not like him? - this is the question which is troubling him. Is it wrong on his part to expect that he be given the same treatment that he gives to others?
By Aravind on Thursday, February 02, 2006 at 7:42 AM Post Categories:
  1. Thiagu

    Thanks for praising me so much da machan :)

  1. Aravind

    @ thiagu:
    nenappu thaan pozhappa kedukkudhu.... unna pathi yaarum inga sollala :)

  1. mani

    Freeya vidu maamu

  1. Mythreyee

    vazhkaiyil ithellaam sagajam... u can never ever expect ppl 2 behave da same way u do... den v can juz hav clones insteada havin genetic variations, right?? :)

    u juz hafta get usd 2 da fact dat ppl r different... its a big bad world n mosta da times, it dus feel like u r d only gud 1 out der.. but dats not true.. naa irukene!!!! :D :D :D

  1. Aravind

    @ Mani

  1. Aravind

    @ Vasu:
    Does being considerate depend on genes? i donno!!!
    Seri... Seri... namma rendu peru nallavanga irukkom!!!

  1. Mythreyee

    i dint quite mean bein considerate is genetic.. din mean it literally. im juz sayin ppl r basically diff, rite frm the minutest sub-atomic particle inside us.. so u cant expect em 2 b da way u r.. dusnt happen...

  1. Aravind

    @ Vasu:

  1. tamizhan

    Ah, when you expect too much from your friends and get a nice big bulb... Welcome to the club aravind!

  1. Aravind

    @ scudie:

    hee... hee... thanx for the welcome... Nice to know dat there are more ppl like me ;)

  1. Snow white

    C'mon!! Just see your blog entries to know what is life. Your prevvious post was titled 'Yipee!'. this post says 'Life is not so fair'. And the next post talks about your happiness and exuberance.
    See..Life moves on...
    Vaazhkaiyila idhellam sagajamappa!

  1. Sushma

    Hey Aravind,

    Expectations lead to disappointment, I know all about it because I've 'been there, done that'. I feel let down when others I have expectations of, fail to produce. 'Do unto others as you would have others do unto you'...doesn't work all the time. I guess we all jus gotta let the lil things fly.

  1. Aravind

    @ snowwhite:
    Vaazhkai-la idhellaam sagajam dhaan.. but konjam neram vatutham irukkum illa? that was what was captured by that post!
    hmmm... romba serious-aa reply pannittena illa?? seri free-ya vidu ;)

  1. Aravind

    @ Sush:
    Yeah.. u are right... That was just a passing thought... was just venting out ma frustation ;) but it's totally gone now ;)

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